Today’s Discussion: Loyalty Is Vital To Family
The Key Competent To Family Is Loyalty
There is no trust without loyalty. You can imagine a relationship with anyone and having no established ground of trust. Sad but true, there is no spot to stand. However you may want to look at it loyalty is something that many have lost and few understand. Loyalty is vital to family and when you realize this a strong family you can build.
To be loyal to something does not mean to pick it up one day and put it to the wayside another. When someone becomes intertwined within the fabric of what you consider to be family, I am very suggestive to say that it is forever. With that being said, obviously this bond can be broken under the strained circumstances of a wrong doing.
Bonds are built upon the premise of loyalty. With that being said loyalty is also something that includes empathy, trust and even honesty. There is a sense of being able to pick up the phone and calling that one person you know will answer each and every time. Without there being that established sense of security are these individuals you consider family, really family?
Trust Is A Driving Factor To Any Relationship
The trust that is required to build a successful circle and family is nothing to be reckoned with. With this notion we must really get a full grasp on what you see as trust. Trust is something that can not be broken under any circumstance. If trust is broken then there is no value to what you posses as loyalty and even family.
There is a continuous drive to be loyal to those that you care for and wish to be there for. Of course you can be too trusting but that is up to you to permit when enough is enough. To be a good person you must have it in you to also be honest to the current situation and circumstances. Trust is something we must have even if we have been wronged before or else you may very well end up alone forever.
Being able to walk through life with a sense of loyalty you have the security to know you will be treated right, most of the time. It takes courage to trust and courage to be loyal.
Question For The Day
Where do you see your spectrum of loyalty? Are you able to trust others to establish a sense of loyalty?
It takes a special kind of person to understand the complexities of any relationship to the fullest. There is something that is ever evolving when you have a true connection to another person.
With that being said I challenge you today to observe those around you and how you treat them. Are you loyal to the extent in which you wish to be treated? Having the ground of trust allows you to create a connection that you may have never thought possible.
Just because you’ve been hurt in the past does not mean you are not free to create new environments to live within. It is up to you to have the courage to build a new means of “family” with the boundaries of trust, honesty, courage and loyalty.